Acceptance and respect are the main things. Brevity is also important. If men accepted “no” as the definite answer – and women were brief and positive in the saying of that “NO” – we might all be in a better place as human beings. Crazies and thugs unfortunately excluded – because crazies and thugs have never understood the word “NO”.
Frankly, when it comes to shades of gray (or grey), I prefer the Monkees’ version. Wanted to post it here, but no can do. Apparently audio is a no go. Oh well. Those of my age will remember the song, and I shall always consider it definitive.